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Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 9, 2020

Monday BARB UP November 18, 2019

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Oh darn. Right now, Rocky the pug is rifling through the garbage can, the one he has access to, the …

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Tuesday BARB IN 2020 January 28, 2020

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When I first started blogging, I also kept a log of Three Good Things, that I recorded at night, a …

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Friday BARB IN 2020 January 24, 2020

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Why date, I wonder sometimes, because for me, the combing through of potential mates is tedious. Dating is complicated. What …

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Friday 2020 BARB January 17

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A snapshot of parenting a college student. Wake up 7:30. The Teenager is leaving for her Spring semester of her …

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Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 9, 2020

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2020. In general, I am not a resolution maker. I make decisions to do and not do things on the …

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Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 2, 2020

January 02, 2020 87 Views 0 Comment

I was whining about my then-job status with a friend of mine, also in her 50’s. As if she were …

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Saturday BARB December 28, 2019

December 28, 2019 459 Views 0 Comment

In honor of Hanukkah, here are 8 things about me. 1. I am so into Rocky, my dog, I have …

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Tuesday BARB UP December 24, 2019

December 24, 2019 97 Views 0 Comment

I’m in a good mood today. Christmas Eve. Dinner with friends tonight, Mother arriving tomorrow, The Teenager returning Thursday from …

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Thursday BARB IS UP December 19, 2019

December 19, 2019 137 Views 0 Comment

You don’t forget your Parents’ death date. You may be woozy on the details, you may have new memories unrealized, …

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Friday A (belated) BARBIVERSARY December 13, 2019

December 13, 2019 181 Views 0 Comment

My daughter wrote the book Earth Hates Me. Own It! Please. Four years ago, I was in a dead end job having …

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Wednesday BARB UP YO! December 4, 2019

December 03, 2019 210 Views 0 Comment

Tis The Season to Gift A Teen Earth Hates Me Our new boss had arrived. Male, of course, white, privilege oozing …

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Monday BARB UP November 18, 2019

November 17, 2019 179 Views 0 Comment

Oh darn. Right now, Rocky the pug is rifling through the garbage can, the one he has access to, the …

ENTRE NOUS

Transitions: Lydia Lacey

January 15, 2017 3093 Views 2 Comments

I have been friends with Lydia Lacey since the very early 90’s. She was a Chicago transplant; our mutual friends …

ENTRE NOUS

Entre Nous: Tracy Bonham

February 23, 2017 2991 Views 1 Comment

I remember clearly when Mother, Mother was on rotation on MTV; there she was, Tracy Bonham, reminding me that we …

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5 Things I Own and/or Covet.

January 29, 2017 22168 Views 1 Comment

A list of 5 things I want and or covet. BAGS For the women who carry everything, or are in …

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So…For 300 Dollars, Would You Have Sex With Me?

January 20, 2017 3780 Views 1 Comment

“I already want to marry you.” The banter is going well, as well as dating-app badinage goes. It’s 11am, I’m sitting …

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Monday BARB UP December 11, 2017

December 11, 2017 391 Views 0 Comment

Snow fell on New York City this weekend and it was glorious. Right now, in New York City, with reports …

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Wednesday BARB Up November 8, 2017

November 08, 2017 563 Views 0 Comment

A year ago today, I woke up hopeful. I went to bed, devastated. What followed me was a year of, …

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Tuesday BARB Up December 13, 2016

December 13, 2016 525 Views 0 Comment

My friend Wendy texted me yesterday and asked me if I’d be up for going to the March at Columbus …

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Friday BARB Up January 27, 2017

January 27, 2017 669 Views 0 Comment

It’s been a roller coaster of a week, so as we head into our weekend, I implore you to give …

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Wednesday BARB Up March 29, 2017

March 29, 2017 655 Views 0 Comment

I was stuck in the paralysis of grief for most of 2016; it wasn’t until the election that I woke …

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Thursday BARB UP May 4, 2017

May 04, 2017 489 Views 0 Comment

And now it’s time for a day in the life… I wake up earlier than usual, 6am. Caught a beautiful …

Tuesday BARB IN 2020 January 28, 2020

Friday BARB IN 2020 January 24, 2020

Friday 2020 BARB January 17

Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 9, 2020

Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 2, 2020

Monday BARB UP November 18, 2019

Tuesday BARB IN 2020 January 28, 2020

Friday BARB IN 2020 January 24, 2020

Friday 2020 BARB January 17

Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 9, 2020

Monday BARB UP November 18, 2019

Tuesday BARB IN 2020 January 28, 2020

Friday BARB IN 2020 January 24, 2020

Friday 2020 BARB January 17

Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 9, 2020

Thursday BARB SEEING 2020 January 2, 2020

Saturday BARB December 28, 2019

Tuesday BARB UP December 24, 2019

Thursday BARB IS UP December 19, 2019

Friday A (belated) BARBIVERSARY December 13, 2019

Wednesday BARB UP YO! December 4, 2019

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